The studies of sroufe professor emeritus of the university of wisconsin studying development in children for more than 30 years have finally shown that a secure attachment is not obtained by sleeping with the parents prolonged breastfeeding or carrying the child but by being able to respond to the signs that the baby emits in a sensitive appropriate and effective way.
Can baby sleep with parents.
Sharing the bed with your baby multiplies the risk for sudden infant death syndrome sids fivefold according to a 2013 study.
And infants who sleep with their parents learn to associate sleep with being close to a parent in the parent s bed which can become a problem at naptime or when the baby needs to go to sleep before the parent is ready.
The aap does believe that an infant under the age of six months should be in the same room with the parents.
Parents can roll over onto the baby the baby can be suffocated in the bedding or the baby could get trapped between the mattress and a wall or headboard.
Studies show that bed sharing increases the risk of sids especially for babies whose mothers smoke.
Because let s be real.
The attachment will be formed with the person who is able to do this and who obtains the trust of the child.
So co sleeping can be a baby in the parents bed a baby in a co sleeper attached to the parent s bed or the baby can be in a crib or bassinette in the same room as the parents.
Although the american academy of pediatrics advises against co sleeping it adjusted its sleep guidelines to acknowledge that parents sometimes fall asleep in bed with their babies.
There are some parents out there that plays it smart and invents ways to get around it.
An infant could even fall off the bed entirely.
Some babies will wake up in the night more frequently if they hear or smell their parents nearby and will sleep more soundly in their own room.
As i mentioned earlier when parents sleep together with their baby there s a fear that it might disrupt fun and naked moments however that doesn t necessarily happen to everybody.
Adult beds can be unsafe for babies.
Many parents bedrooms only fit a bassinet not a full crib and most babies outgrow the bassinet or start rolling or pulling up on the sides by month four five or six.
Babies shouldn t share a bed with parents however because that increases the risk of sudden infant death syndrome sids the guidelines stress.
Besides the potential safety risks sharing a bed with a baby sometimes prevent parents from getting a good night s sleep.